Marriage & Relationships

This Scene in "Heartstopper" Reminded Me of When We First Started Dating

Back when I was 19 and we were sitting on my bed...Plus, my new favorite deodorant and the fall tradition we've done for the last 15 years

Sep 23 •

How I Knew He Was the One

5 (surprising) reasons I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my husband

Sep 16 •

Would You Schedule Sex?

Is it the death of desire or the secret to keeping it alive? Here's our take...

Sep 2 •

The First Night I Ever Spent with My Husband

"I remember how nervous I was and what my expectations were when I walked up to his front porch. I remember feeling like I was about to throw up."

Aug 26 •

Things Gay Couples Do That Straight People Just Don’t Understand

From shared sweaters to political resistance, the quirks and courage of queer love in 2025

Aug 12 •

Manscaping in 2025: Are We Still Shaving Down There or Is the Bush Back?

The stats, the trends, and where we land on the bush vs. bare debate

Jul 22 •

Our Favorite Toys

The things we actually use and love in the bedroom, along with a few extras we can't wait to try

Jul 15 •

How Long Is ‘Too Long’ to Go Without Sex in a Relationship?

Spoiler: You’re probably more normal than you think. Let's discuss.

Jun 17 •

How We Explore Each Other's Kinks and 20 Other Questions on Life, Sex, and Love

Including how we feel about open relationships, how we make gay friends & navigate imposter syndrome, and how many times a week we have sex

Jun 12 •

On Being Dads and Still Feeling Sexy

We posted a shirtless photo and a few people got upset. Here’s what it made us realize.

May 28 •

The Argument That Taught Us Something About Ourselves

Or: the Sunday scuffle that made a whole lot of sense

May 21

Let’s Talk About the Sex Myth No One Can Seem to Shake

Because some myths deserve to be debunked (especially in the bedroom)

May 14 •

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