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We’re Trying to Give Our Kids a ’90s Summer
Feeling nostalgic for a time when there were fewer screens and more scraped knees, popsicles, and long, lazy afternoons. Plus, five tips to try it out…
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The Weekend Edit No. 27
Photos from our 4th of July, the new book I'm bringing to the beach, and PJ's bag everyone can't stop asking about
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10 Moments This Month That Felt Like Pure Summer
One on one time in the hot tub, floating down the river, and grilling out were a few of the highlights so far
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June 2025

The Weekend Edit No. 26
Essentials for a sexy night in, a bunch of fun links, and what to watch, read, and listen to this weekend
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I Dyed My Hair Blonde and I'm Not Sure How I Feel About It
Why is so much of my identity tied up in my hair?
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The Weekend Edit No. 25
The change I made in my appearance, World Refugee Day, J.Crew's big sale, and the new shows we're loving right now
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How Long Is ‘Too Long’ to Go Without Sex in a Relationship?
Spoiler: You’re probably more normal than you think. Let's discuss.
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Happy Father's Day
We became fathers six years ago
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How We Explore Each Other's Kinks and 20 Other Questions on Life, Sex, and Love
Including how we feel about open relationships, how we make gay friends & navigate imposter syndrome, and how many times a week we have sex
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"I Can't Finish the Projects I Start"
Ask Away Issue No. 4
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Father's Day Gift Guide
Thoughtful gift ideas (that they'll actually want) for the father or father-figure in your life
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Forget the Golden Rule: Try This Instead
Why the idea we were all raised on might not be the best way to live
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