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How Long Is ‘Too Long’ to Go Without Sex in a Relationship?
Spoiler: You’re probably more normal than you think. Let's discuss.
14 hrs ago
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PJ and Thomas
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Happy Father's Day
We became fathers six years ago
Jun 16
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PJ and Thomas
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How We Explore Each Other's Kinks and 20 Other Questions on Life, Sex, and Love
Including how we feel about open relationships, how we make gay friends & navigate imposter syndrome, and how many times a week we have sex
Jun 12
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PJ and Thomas
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"I Can't Finish the Projects I Start"
Ask Away Issue No. 4
Jun 6
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Father's Day Gift Guide
Thoughtful gift ideas (that they'll actually want) for the father or father-figure in your life
Jun 5
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PJ and Thomas
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Forget the Golden Rule: Try This Instead
Why the idea we were all raised on might not be the best way to live
Jun 3
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May 2025
On Being Dads and Still Feeling Sexy
We posted a shirtless photo and a few people got upset. Here’s what it made us realize.
May 28
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PJ and Thomas
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The Weekend Edit No. 23
Thoughts from the week, including the pushback we've been getting online, and hi from the beach!
May 23
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PJ and Thomas
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The Argument That Taught Us Something About Ourselves
Or: the Sunday scuffle that made a whole lot of sense
May 21
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Let’s Talk About the Sex Myth No One Can Seem to Shake
Because some myths deserve to be debunked (especially in the bedroom)
May 14
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April 2025
"Where Did All the Twinks Go?"
Ask Away Issue No. 3
Apr 30
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“How Do I Ask for Alone Time Without Hurting Their Feelings?”
Ask Away Issue No. 2
Apr 25
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