The One Thing We Do That Changed Our Sex Life
Would you do this with your partner?
Hi friends!
Are you staying warm out there? Just when we were about to pack away the heavy coats and start dramatically flinging open the windows like we live in a romcom, winter cleared its throat and said, “Not so fast.” So now the heat is back on, our 100 year old floors are cold again, and I get to wear my favorite cardigan around the house as I write. I’m not complaining about that last part.
February has us thinking about love in all its forms. Our unofficial theme for Okay McKay this month is love & sex, and we’ve been tiptoeing, and sometimes stomping, through conversations about both this month, from whether size really matters to a few other topics you can catch up on below. And today, we’re leaning into something even more vulnerable and personal.
So! Grab a blanket, pour something warm (or cold, we don’t judge), and let’s settle in. There’s also a poll at the end, and we would love to hear what you think. You all make these conversations so much richer, and it’s always fun to hear how others do life.
Okay, let’s get to it!
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MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS
The One Thing We Do That Changed Our Sex Life
People ask us all the time how we’ve kept the spark alive after 16 years together, especially now that we have three kids, a farm with all kinds of animals, deadlines, mortgages, and all the usual life stuff that comes with getting older.
We’ve tried a bunch of different things over the years, but there’s one practice we fell into that genuinely shifted the way we connect sexually and emotionally. Maybe it’s not what you expect, but it’s been kind of a fun game changer for us.
Mom, if you’re reading this, don’t go any further!!