How Receiving a Jock Strap in the Mail Spiced Things Up in the Bedroom

It never hurts to try something new.

Last month, we received something in the mail we weren’t expecting.

We have a PO Box where we regularly receive letters, postcards, and packages from readers (y’all are the sweetest btw). Usually the packages contain thoughtful gifts for the kids or fun little things here and there for us, but last month, we received a box containing clothes and hats and socks and…

A jockstrap.

Editor’s note: I had a fun little (PG) photoshoot taking photos of PJ below that you can only see if you’re a paid subscriber. As you know, this newsletter has been my baby since we launched it a few months ago, but this post was completely PJ’s idea. He approached me about it because we get asked all the time how we keep the spark alive after being together for so long, and the truth is, we have a healthy sex life because we like to spice things up and aren’t afraid to try new things. He saw the value in sharing this with others in hopes that it might inspire them to try something new as well. It’s funny how discussing matters like this, even in 2023, still seems so taboo. Sex, for some, is such a big part of relationships, so why not share tips and tricks when you learn them?